Dear Bestie,
There is this person for the life of me, just does not like me. I have been nothing but cordial, respectful, and nice to this person, but yet, they treat me like I’m a burden. We’ve never been in any type of disagreement that I am aware of. Avoiding them is not possible and it just makes me irate with their treatment toward me. How do you think I should move forward, in hopes of making a hostile situation with this person more manageable?
Hi There!
It’s your bestie here! First off let me say this situation is a hard one because of course we all want to be liked but realizing that we won’t always be liked is really the first step here. You can be professional if you must be around this person but don’t try to ‘fix’ the situation, that will just make it worse. Get the work done you need to with them and move on. Remember your worth in the situation, and if they don’t see your worth then are they worth it in the end? I think not! I hope this helps!
Love Always,
Bestie